So as an introduction, there’s some place in Southeast Asia which I notice started changing to have unfair contrast standard in dress code at pool & legal Tv Censorship (In past, either at pool/ legal tv swim scene – male & female wear normal suits, and okay for both sexes to see their opposite sexes wearing swimsuit at that time, female at that time not angry guy seeing her in 2 pieces swimming – because it Do f*cking normal (plus: female alone can see male wear undie, right, so fair enough already). Now – thanks to hypocrite sex negative feminism & religious bigot – this new generation have different mindset, the most common thing if you enter the swimming area is ‘male wear short/ undie, while almost all female either wear modest full covered swimsuit/ even burqini, the female will more easily offended if ‘guy can see female wear 2 pieces at pool’).
This doesn’t mean “I’m pervert who want to see female” (why the fuck I must keep explaining this every time brought this issues? you guess), nor “I’m forcing female who want to be modest to expose herself”- No, I’ll not forced shy girl (although as I already explain above that new generation girl change their mindset after propaganda of modesty feminism & religion which mean ‘biased/ not valid’). I think the unfairness started happen to men side too i.e ‘male will easily derided as “objectifying female” + men must feel guilty just because seeing her wear normal suit at f*cking swimming pool, when girl alone can see/ liberated seeing topless guy with swimming short, or even admire hot topless guy’ basically female not curious anymore about her opposite sexes form since male body less taboo (worse we must still hear ‘sex negative feminist’ & religious bigot telling the opposite narrative that “only happen to female”- like male are always wear tuxedo all the time at pool/ tv scene).
Sometime anxious me to think: in this society ‘guy can get shame/ even prohibited to see fucking hair of some clothed female who already covered in double layer (her top & bottom area) at fucking pool’ (burqini), yet the girl not only can see men hair, not only see men crop top, even can see men topless at place outside than swimming pool’- it seem contrast to me (or guy just see stomach of female who at fucking pool is still easy to be count as “objectification” at this Muslim area- let alone her top bra – which actually still covered her nip right? – but hei female can see male nip even outside pool, not fair! you see the “contrast-ness”?)
Now this is how the debate begin, when I’m bit moody because of this, so I try to raise awareness by commenting/ satiring at 2/3 instagram photos who show ‘contrast dresscode’ at pool. Suddenly a female (sex negative feminist I guess) with her group of friend started to reply back to me, then I realize this group who attack me is a ‘teen’ (I don’t know at first since I’m not good differentiating it), realizing they are teen- actually I just want to stop the conversation, but then this girl (let’s called it “daddyshark”) started give biased point that annoy me (since I’m sensitive in this issues), so I think it’s okay if I give back some of my counter point since at that time I thought “nothing wrong to exchange point, to express ourselves even with teen”, so then the “exchange point” happen, and it escalated into debate for 5 days. Me (alone as usual) vs her (with bunch of her feminist girl + some guy).
What really annoy me is:
1.Her hypocrisy trying to encourage female modesty (counting it “objectification” if male see female in suit at f*cking pool), yet at the same time said to me several time (something sound) “just because female can see male topless, DOESN’T MEAN OBJECTIFICATION, get It!?” (you’ll see she shown her hypocrite double standard several time).
2.She accuse me several time & play victim because I said like “men can control himself, even seeing a topless female example at Europe”/ “If 2 piece of suit being normalize again here, guy can see female in 2 piece of suit (bikini/ 2 piece that more modest than bikini), and able to still respect her, also nothing wrong with that, girl can also see us topless”, she then falsely accused me as “trying to forced all female to topless/ bikini”, even if I several time try to clarify it’s wrong (even in 1 of her reply, she passionately play professional victim card- she text something sound like this “So why we can’t be modest if we want!? why we female must exposing ourselves”- when I already clarify her again & again that I do not mean to said like what she claim/ accused to me, piss off!)
3.Worse she alone said “how if female see your penis?”, then I said that she alone said like that, and she easily reply “nobody said want to see penis”, okay she hoping me to understand her clarification, yet alone don’t want to hear my clarification, and keep play victim, and keep falsely accused me.
4.Biased by comparing penis (male genital) with (non genital) breast. Penis= Vagina, both genital, both primary reproduction, for peeing, between your legs, infront our asses, breast are secondary reproduction just like adam apple’s neck. Imagine if reverse I said “If female want to see male topless, how about guy seeing your vagina (bonus her buttcrack) for equality”- you also don’t want when I said like this right? so same it goes both way. Also not funny that the bigger genital penis is not taboo to be ‘objectified’ when the smaller genital vagina is super taboo. She even said “how if female see your penis” just because I said it’s still normal for guy if see bikini at beach/ pool, she make stupid comparison again.
Yes the debate is over about 1-2 years ago, but now my instagram account is banned (over football copyright*), and only left her argument when debate with me on her ig. So I don’t want this happen you know, so I decide to post my defend here for people to see, I don’t want this girl play victim keep telling lie story here & there to inflate ‘female “get harass” at social media’ statistic.
Here screenshot of ‘H’ a.k.a Me vs ‘daddyshark’ a.k.a her on left, with some addition explanation of me at ‘my argument’ on the right, no caption needed since the explanation beside is clear enough. By the way I blur the name of place we live in since not ready for reader to know where I am now*.
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